BACKGROUND 

I am 30 years old heterosexual single female with no children. I am in the initiation process of becoming a sex educator.  I also study and practice a bit of tantra. I have not had sex in seven months (not for any particular reason other than I have not felt connected to anyone enough to have sex and because I had been suffering from chronic yeast infections) but that will change today because I have a sex date with my X LOL. 

YONI LOVE

The taste and smell….and the softness and juiciness inside, outside she’s cute…small.

AROUSAL

What really turns me on and gets me most aroused is when a man that touches different parts of my body or me imagining forbidden situations or personas. Definitely lots of FOREPLAY!

PLEASURE/FOREPLAY

What brings me and my body into pleasure is using oils, tongue, soft touch, thoughts, imagination, visualization, the anticipation…

Receiving Massage!!!!!!!!! As foreplay massage gets me to the edge of climax and to have an amazing orgasm.

ORGASM

Situations that bring me to orgasm can be when there is a bit more pressure used, maybe a sexy visual input, or a masculine voice in my ears claiming me, maybe a slap! It excites me to orgasm when I feel like I am loosing control and being dominated. 

The type of touch that gets me to climax and have the best orgasms is more pressure in my clitoris… hands on my stomach… maybe something more aggressive or soft… as long as I feel I can loose control, sometimes if I am in full control (meaning, me touching myself and making the moves I know makes me orgasm)

In penetrative sex what gets me to climax and have the best orgasms is a big dick, plus touching my breast…

How long it typically takes for me to reach orgasm in sex totally depends. It can be from 3 seconds to 3 hours. Lol

My genital release orgasms tend to last from 15 seconds to 1 minute…but if I continue love making maybe more…

As far as full body orgasm, I have had two times a full body orgasm…and tried to keep them going as long as possible. 

I have experienced Amrita (female ejaculation/squirting) one time. Aside from clitoral orgasms I have also experienced G-spot and Full body Orgasms.

 SELF PLEASURE

I self pleasure at least twice a week. I easily orgasm with self pleasure, yes, easily. By myself so easy… sometimes with a men, it takes a bit longer if he does not fully know how to touch me, or he is not the full type that turns me on…

I do self pleasure (stimulate oneself as an act of self love, in ritual and take time to prolong pleasure) YESSSSS, I do take my time when in ritual. 

Sometimes I masturbate yes (stimulate oneself to get off quickly) …if I feel a partner is getting tired of waiting for me to orgasm (shhh, that’s kind of sad) lol

When I masturbate it takes me from one to fifteen minutes to climax.  

What gets me to climax in masturbation and have the best orgasms is using my middle finger inside of me, touching my g-spot…and palms of my hand massaging my clit…

DURATION/FREQUENCY

Right now and for the past seven months there has been no partner sex, none :( . If I could, I would have sex every day of the week!  When I do have sex it lasts from 15 minutes to an hour. 

SEXUAL ORIENTATION/IDENTITY

I am monogamous and I don’t really partake in any swingers clubs, BDSM, Orgies, gang bangs, sex parties, tantra and sex positive communities.  Have done some of these things, but it’s not where I hangout mostly. 

BODY IMAGE

I love my yoni, I have been on journey now to take really good care of her…since I had chronic yeast infection for 2 years every month.. now I have been healed for the last 6 months.

If there is anything I don’t like about her it’s that She is too skinny… I would like her to have more fat on the outer lips hehe.  I would tell my teenage self that genitals are perfect as they are. 

I love that my Monthly cycle is all perfectly in sink, right now aligned with the full moon. 

HEALING JOURNEY

The healing journey I’ve been on is to allow more pleasure and to surrender more.. without performing or trying to look good. Instead just allow, feel and be whatever it is…

TRAUMA

I absolutely feel I have a healthy attitude around sex and pleasure and I do not feel that I suffer from any sexual dysfunction.  I have never experienced and sexual abuse or assault. I don’t feel I cary any shame, guilt or fear around my sexuality or yoni. 

FEMALE EJACULATION

I have only experienced this one time. 

FIRST TIME

The first time I had sex I was 12 years old and it was with my boyfriend, I was with him already for 5 months. Well, His dick was small, that’s probably good for the first time ever. That day I was skipping school at his house.. and after we had sex for the first time. He had to quickly leave and go to university and so he left me somewhere on the streets, it felt lonely, and weird. 

SEX LIFE

Something I don’t enjoy about sex is the coldness after orgasm… not being or feeling fully respected and worshiped. 

KINKS/FETISH

I have a few, I like older men (like a father, doctor etc…, or younger men (like a brother)…. girls together… massage therapist… or like I am getting money to give it…etc…

COMMUNICATION

When it comes to communicating about sex I have a hard time expressing how exactly I want it to be done. I don’t want to break the vibes, being a teacher you know? I have done it before a few times, I feel like it looses a bit, so sometimes I just let it roll and go with what is provided. I want my partners to ask me for permission, not just do and take.

What I would want to communicate or what I want a new partner to know about how to pleasure my yoni best is to honor her, eat her before penetrating her, know where my clit is, where my g-spot is…and create different movements.. not only inside and out kind of movement, but circular movements. And tell me I am beautiful.. tell me I am yours …etc…

ENEGRY SEX

I would say I am energetically sensitive and have kundalini rising where I have experienced full body orgasm but I can’t say it’s how sex is for me with the partners I’ve had. 

YONI MASSAGE 

For this project of being photographed for before and after arousal pictures, I was give the option to self pleasure or to receive a yoni massage, I opted for the massage. This was my first ever Yoni Massage and I climaxed in it. The whole yoni massage experience was very beautiful, totally surrendering to pleasure. 

YONI PICTURES

When participating in this project to be photographed, I felt comfortable and excited…because I had an amazing loving professional. 

When viewing the yoni pictures of myself for the first time I thought Nice Yoni, and I felt I am now much more in love with her, then I have ever been. 

MAGICAL MESSAGE 

Your pleasure is your passport for FREEDOM!