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IDENTITY/BACKGROUND 

I am a life coach and I facilitate sexual empowerment workshops for women. I have not been sexually active for the past 11 months. I identify as queer.  

YONI LOVE

My yoni, I love how beautiful, sensitive and juicy she is. The texture, the colors and the way she opens when I spread my legs.  I’m in tune with my yoni, I love and honor my yoni, take care of my genitals and think positively. 

AROUSAL

What turns me on is conscious touching, receiving a massage and experiencing different textures on my body. Kissing, lots of kissing, smelling my partner, foreplay and fantasies. What brings me into pleasure is massage, movement, slow breathing, kisses. I get pleasure through connection, energy, emotions, states of love when have intimacy. 

ORGASM

How long it takes me to reach orgasm in sex depends my connection with my partner. It could take from five minutes up to twenty five minutes. What brings my yoni or body into orgasm is moving my energy with breathing, moaning and light touch.  How long my orgasm lasts depends on the moment, but from 10 seconds to a minute if I have multiple orgasms. It’s easy for me to orgasm.  Having a lover rub my clitoris, massage my mons pubis, and around my genitals gives me the best orgasms. 

The type of foreplay that gets me to almost climax and have an amazing orgasm is kissing and light touch on my yoni. The best orgasms I have with penetrative sex is when we’re in the missionary position with lots of kissing. With a partner in penetrative sex it typically takes on average five to twenty minutes to reach orgasm including foreplay.

The different types of orgasms I experience are clitoral, g-spot, anal, cervical, sleep orgasm and full body orgasms. I’ve experienced Amrita (female ejaculation/squirting) only once in my life. 

 I am full body orgasmic. I can keep the orgasmic energy flowing, rolling and circulating for a few hours or more. I prefer to stay in that energy as long I’m around my lovers or if I’m having a few hours to myself. 

MASTURBATION

I get the best orgasms when masturbating from touching my yoni, my labia majora and breasts. I masturbate once or twice a week. It takes me five to two minutes to have a climax when masturbating.  

SELF PLEASURE

YES!!! I self pleasure. I do it at least once a week. I take time for my self pleasure

FIRST TIME

My first time I was fourteen and it was a very confusing experience. It was pleasurable but I was not fully in my body. I wish it had been different, that it had been the same as when I pleasure myself and the way I know my body.  

TRAUMA

Yes, I experience sexual abuse when I was 6 years old.  I come from a very religious background and I would tell my teenage self not to be ashamed of my genitals.  

COMMUNICATION

Sometimes with my partner(s) I find it difficult to share my fantasies  of wanting to explore with more people than just my partner. What I would want a new lover to know, is to honor my yoni, see it, and energetically feel it before any other touch or sex or anything else. 

SEX LIFESTYLE

I participate in a sex positive community, with swingers, a tantra community, BDSM, Fet Life etc. I consider myself to be tantric. I have not ever participated in gang bangs, orgies or swingers clubs, I have only been to play parties. My last relationship was an open relationship.  I have not been having sex with anyone for the past two months.  

SHAME/FEAR/GUILT

Sometimes I still carry shame around my sexual orientation because I grew up in a religious family. Sometimes I have body shame around that I sometimes get self conscious of not liking my mons pubis.

HEALING JOURNEY

I’ve been on a healing journey around my sexuality and what helped me the most is learning to ask for what I want and to have set boundaries.

YONI MASSAGE

When asked if I preferred to self pleasure or to receive a yoni massage for the Arousal academy project, I decided to receive a yoni massage. It was very pleasurable.  I tuned in with my body easily and let myself receive, opening my heart and feeling the energy all over my body.This was not my first yoni massage. I climaxed in the session. 

AROUSAL ACADEMY PROJECT

When participating in this project to be photographed, I felt very proud to make the decision because I knew it was for educational purposes and I was honored to be able to be part of it and to be photographed afterwards.

YONI PICTURES

When viewing my yoni pictures for the first time, the first thing I thought was “Wow, is that me?” Even though I look at my yoni very regularly, it was a surprise to see it before and after with a great angle and lighting. I was flattered and felt like I was looking at a piece of art. I was feeling very happy, proud and honored.

MAGICAL MESSAGE

Thank you so much for doing this work and to have the courage. Having an orgasmic yoni massage and being photographed gave me the goddess glow, not only on my face but my yoni too. This is medicine.